My husband and I found out somewhat recently that he does not have any sperm. He has had two sperm retrieval procedures (one in each testicle) and both did not give any sperm. We found a urologist, Dr. Peter Schlegel, up at Cornell and he does an extensive search through the testicle with a microscope so if anyone is going to find sperm, he is. Only problem is he doesn't take insurance and we would have to travel to NY and pretty much stay there for 2 weeks. We are thinking about doing this but it is a gamble.
On the other hand we are talking about asking his brother for a sperm donation. This seems like a difficult situation and I just wanted to know if anyone out there has done this? How did you ask? How was it handled? Did you have a positive experience? Any details that can be given is extremely helpful! Thanks!